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Monday, September 13, 2010

YOU DON'T ALWAYS NEED AN EYE TO "SEE"


                Such is the fragrance of LOVE. Some setbacks followed by some magic moments , some bitter experience followed by some unforgettable memories which on the later part of our life can be well put in a treasure of fantasy.
                 
                So, does that means every love story need some bitterness in it to self analyze oneself better? Difficult ask though even for Sigmund Freud.
                
                To, me confusion is bound to occur when two unknown hearts are in the process of merger. One has to leave behind his/her ego, personal ambition, desires to satiate desires of the other. In the due process some lacuna leads to some outbound confusion.
                
                

               Confusion leads to tension which leads to harshening their relationship (some time break-ups) and strengthening their ego and desires towards personal attainment which prioritize their mutual goals.
                 

               LOVE like people is such ubiquitous in the world that everybody wants to have it no matter understanding the real meaning of it. Someone sense physical relationship as love some want to prove others that I too can have lover. so their so called love story (story) ends without affecting the other much , because to them departing was a part of their love story .to them  “ek gaya to aur ek dusra ayega “.but how it affects the persons who have actually loved someone so so much for whom materialistic attainment has no meaning when compared with their love . Their moral shattered and such that they fell they have no place in the world.
   
                        To me confusion is somehow good as some loses their self identity satiating the demands of the others. It the time one can realize the importance of the other in his/her life.
   

                    So, what one can do in such a situation when things are going the other way. One can just sit around a dark corner to see the lights within him. Ya some spiritualism can help a bit to realize how much u care for her, how much you going to miss her one answer you will get at sudden i.e. yes I going to miss her badly . Tell the truth to the best of your possibility that how much you care for her and make him understand what you are and how you are going to miss him.
                   If still it don’t work leave everything on destiny or else one can assume that one is not destined get one’s love.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              


                                                                                                                                  Thanking you                                                                                                                                      Bibek anand