AAJ KA LOVE

Love like life is so insecure. It comes in so passionately, but never guarantees that it will stay here forever. Probably, that’s why it is so precious.

Not every love story need a wild truck running down a road to kill it, or a lethal disease to take someone away. Sometimes the people in love walk away. It’s with this sadness that I am writing this blog.

They met, they dated, one day enjoying all those goose bumps they spoke those 3 beautiful words, and after a good amount of time one ideal Tuesday they said 3 new words ‘I am sorry’. And these 3 words ended everything between them. Most of the times it was only one between those two who wanted this break up whereas the other person so badly needed his/her love not to be ruined this way. The latter witnessed all that happening with moist eyes and the former went ahead to cherish his/her immediate dreams and later mingled with someone else. Aaj ka has become a fashion statement to fall in love with many, to date many and to do the rest of everything with many.

So, were they faking earlier when they said they love? Or, were they then not matured enough when they said they love, to later find out that this is not what they were looking for? Or maybe, they were matured enough then but later in this journey turned immature. No matter what the case was, but the common reality which I read in the final lines of these emails also convey to me that how they now cry on their foolishness, how they miss the love of their lives, how they miss to be cared by someone so special.

My only reason to write this blog is to check our actions before it’s too late. It is high time we turn mature and curb this accelerating and ugly series of ‘premarital divorce’. Let’s be cautious enough and calculate every permutation and combination of our life before we commit to someone, for you never know, it may ruin someone’s beautiful life - which is yet to blossom fully - with another so called ‘I am sorry’.

Though destiny overrules most of the things, but let’s not give up. Let us both (the one who walked away and the one who stood at that juncture for long enough) wish to get back the happiness; give it another push. Let us focus one more time on how to achieve rest of the things and still continue with the relationship. Let’s try again for that wise man, who once said – where there is a will, there is a way. The best part as I see in these sad emails is that one ray of hope which is surging again to redo things. Congratulations to those who had made/will make it. And to those good souls who still couldn’t persuade their better halves, I would say – learn to let go.