Live Your passion And Let Live

One day I was talking to one of my cousin who works
in a leading multinational bank. He was
mentioning that over the years there has
been increase in number of individuals taking
sabbatical for few years and pursue activities
of their choice. According to many it was nice
phenomena. Personally I had different view.
Reason people take complete sabbatical from
their occupation is because they work very
hard, for long hours and with stress.
Eventually when they get burnt out they quit
work and then go on to do things of their
choice.
This kind of extreme behavior is not ideal for
an individual. Preferably there should be mix
of work, pleasure and rest.
Once i visited a house owner to a beautiful
place. Owners of the house was saying that
they get lot of young couples who visit them
during long weekends and spend most time
sleeping. According to them these couples
spend long hours at work while they are
working and when they get time to holiday,
they catch up on sleep. Sleep is a source of
energy. If we are deprived of it, functioning
of our body will suffer. When people work for
long hours they are deprived of sleep. If that
happens for prolonged period of time physical
and mental disturbances arise.
Somewhere in mid 80s and 90s a thought
process was beginning to develop whereby it
was felt that money was must to enjoy life.
This was the time when materialism was
gaining momentum. Large corporate realized
this. They lured individuals with higher pay.
However no businessman pays more, unless
he is able to extract that kind of returns – in
fact if he is not getting desired returns, he
will lay-off people. Corporates started making
individuals do double the amount of work.
Since materialistic possession were
considered source of happiness people were
willing to do more work than their body could
withstand. Things did not stop there.
Corporates also started propagating careers
that would pay more. Parents started
encouraging children to choose those careers
where there was possibility of more earning.
It was not felt important to choose career
which child enjoyed. It is obvious that doing
things which we do not enjoy is going to
cause stress. More importantly if we have to
do that activity for long hours. Stress so
created may get relived by shopping,
sabbaticals, some form of materialisms etc.
This will give temporary relief but not a
permanent solution.
Permanent solution is in doing things which
we like, what we enjoy. I have observed
many individuals, who enjoy what they are
doing. Initially they may not be earning
sufficient but because they enjoy work they
are able to hang-in there. Also because they
enjoy work they never compromise on quality
of work. We all know good quality work will
reward over a period time and this is what
happens to them as well. Eventually they
make money.
One of the litmus test to verify whether we
are enjoying our work or not is to ask this
question, when do we want to retire? If we
are looking forward to early retirement it
means we are not enjoying work. If our work
is giving us enjoyment, then why on earth
would we want to stop pursuing it and retire?
Taking first step could be difficult – pursuing
things which may not be necessarily paying
well but we enjoy doing it. However believe
me later it will pay,may or may not financially but ,
emotionally, physically and even socially for sure.
One last thing for our parents I know you care for your
child and wish their betterment but it is he/she who has to
live his life so let him/her decide his passion don't thrash him
to a place where life would be so miserable. 

THANK YOU NOTE

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HEIRARCHY OF CORRUPTION

                 The other day I had gone to the A.G OFFICE (popularly known as the “NAU TALLA” a 9 storied building) where all official works are undertaken with my father as he had some work over there accompanied by one of his colleagues.

                We People like a herd were moving along the stair case. The walls were all decorated by Betle spits. Barring 2-3 every one were chewing paan like a cow chewing a bunch of grass. Finally we reach the 5^th floor; on reaching there it feels like I have climbed to the Everest tip. Papa told me to wait there till he returns. My father was withdrawing some money from his G.P.F. account, I guess for buying something. I wonder if I could get a new mobile, though it is had to get a shit out of my papa.

                As I waited there I watch more people, more paan chewing people and to my surprise a person was selling paan (cigarettes and other forms of tobacco) in the 5^th floor just opposite to a cabin with a wooden name plate addressing something MISHRA, IFS-1 blah….. . I was all surprised by seeing a people selling paan in the 5^th floor and that to in front of a state civil servant. Incredible INDIA indeed!

                It was almost 30 minutes of a brain storming wait which was testing my patience by that time my papa came hurriedly which bring a shy of relief in me but again turned down when he handed me two thousand rupee note and told me to bring change from the ground floor . To bring change from the ground floor was like start the “Everest mission again”. Ram spent 14 years by the order and brought the change as directed (twenty of hundreds).

                My papa again entered the room as I started to hovering, the more I hover the more was the smell of paan followed me. Again my papa came up with a person with big belly not to mention about his hips and not to my surprise he was also chewing paan. He was talking slowly with my papa about something something… AH! My audibility is not that good. Then he opened his diary and something and immediately my papa entered all change I had a brought climbing the Everest. Though my audibility was not that good but my visibility was  all of a sudden I understand that it was nothing but giving bribery ”hey bhagbaan yeh din dikhana tha”.All day power packed by surprises .

                Suddenly the person’s smile get wider and he assure my father that all works will be done in due time followed by a warm handshake that means end of my waiting period. Thanks god!

                When I ask papa about all that and the answer was also a surprise for me that every person do the same nor hey have to climb the Everest thousand times (OH THAT’S MEAN @ BUCKS FOR EVERY CLIMB HMMMM… cost-effective indeed ) .

                When I reach home with the realization that every person in this country are either doers or victims of CORRUPTION if 2-3 left behind they feel very unlucky.

                People willing to buy degree or job on the cost of some money  leaving the qualified behind and the person who does this will surely  want to extract all the bucks he had spend for his valuable education or job.

                People say that CORRUPTION is in our blood it cant be up rooted plenty of he and cry but it is still exists at the heart of every citizen of India and became a industry it self.

                So will it be wise to blame the government or THE kalmadi committee for the CWG mess. Although MOTHER INDIA has witnessed its sons being exploited by a single person (BE it R.R Raju or Koda”THE MADHU KODA”), who take away thousands of crores money and deposit them into the swiss bank to fuel their future progeny leaving the people cry CORRUPTION CORRUPTION.

                CORRUPTION remains an unsolved mystery till now. Some of the dossier that I have formulated to fight against CORRUPTION are

                1. Set up a public forum (non government) where one can file any sort of complains about the CORRUPTION. On the basis of some factual data which can be on the later part can be investigated and brought to public notice.

      2. Make full use of the R.T.I. act 2005 to gather maximum data and can make the Bureaucrat More accountable and transparent.

                3. At the lower level people should be educated through the the NGOs  about the CORRUPTION.

Which can bring us the change .change where no CORRUPTION exists, change where our children can breathe ease, change where talent prioritize money, change where people regarded equally then only we can see a better world not in only in terms of higher digits f growth but a well sociable place to live upon or else we need a MUNNA BHAI-CIRCUIT  pair to solve all the problems or else we can board the same train where all were travelling yes “TRAIN OF CORRUPTION ”.

In the intrigue of my thought process suddenly I felt my phone ringing; papa was on the phone he was telling me to buy a new mobile. My papa was sounding like giving me bribe. No papa my mobile was working properly I nee not to buy another one.

                                                                                                                                                                                      Jay hind

                                                  

                                                       BIBEK ANAND

YOU DON'T ALWAYS NEED AN EYE TO "SEE"

                Such is the fragrance of LOVE. Some setbacks followed by some magic moments , some bitter experience followed by some unforgettable memories which on the later part of our life can be well put in a treasure of fantasy.
                 
                So, does that means every love story need some bitterness in it to self analyze oneself better? Difficult ask though even for Sigmund Freud.
                
                To, me confusion is bound to occur when two unknown hearts are in the process of merger. One has to leave behind his/her ego, personal ambition, desires to satiate desires of the other. In the due process some lacuna leads to some outbound confusion.
                
                
               Confusion leads to tension which leads to harshening their relationship (some time break-ups) and strengthening their ego and desires towards personal attainment which prioritize their mutual goals.
                 

               LOVE like people is such ubiquitous in the world that everybody wants to have it no matter understanding the real meaning of it. Someone sense physical relationship as love some want to prove others that I too can have lover. so their so called love story (story) ends without affecting the other much , because to them departing was a part of their love story .to them  “ek gaya to aur ek dusra ayega “.but how it affects the persons who have actually loved someone so so much for whom materialistic attainment has no meaning when compared with their love . Their moral shattered and such that they fell they have no place in the world.
   
                        To me confusion is somehow good as some loses their self identity satiating the demands of the others. It the time one can realize the importance of the other in his/her life.
   
                    So, what one can do in such a situation when things are going the other way. One can just sit around a dark corner to see the lights within him. Ya some spiritualism can help a bit to realize how much u care for her, how much you going to miss her one answer you will get at sudden i.e. yes I going to miss her badly . Tell the truth to the best of your possibility that how much you care for her and make him understand what you are and how you are going to miss him.
                   If still it don’t work leave everything on destiny or else one can assume that one is not destined get one’s love.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              

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PYAAAR

Love like life is so insecure. It comes in so passionately, but never guarantees that it will stay here forever. Probably, that’s why it is so precious.

Not every love story need a wild truck running down a road to kill it, or a lethal disease to take someone away. Sometimes the people in love walk away. It’s with this sadness that I am writing this blog.

They met, they dated, one day enjoying all those goose bumps they spoke those 3 beautiful words "I LOVE YOU", and after a good amount of time one ideal Tuesday they said 3 new words ‘I am sorry’. And these 3 words ended everything between them. Most of the times it was only one between those two who wanted this break up whereas the other person so badly needed his/her love not to be ruined this way. The latter witnessed all that happening with moist eyes and the former went ahead to cherish his/her immediate dreams and later mingled with someone else. Aaj ka LOVE has become a fashion statement to fall in love with many, to date many and to do the rest of everything with many.

So, were they faking earlier when they said they love? Or, were they then not matured enough when they said they love, to later find out that this is not what they were looking for? Or maybe, they were matured enough then but later in this journey turned immature. No matter what the case was, but the common reality which I witness that how they now cry on their foolishness, how they miss the love of their lives, how they miss to be cared by someone so special.

My only reason to express my holistic view by writing this blog is to check our actions before it’s too late. It is high time we turn mature and curb this accelerating and ugly series of ‘premarital divorce’. Let’s be cautious enough and calculate every permutation and combination of our life before we commit to someone, for you never know, it may ruin someone’s beautiful life - which is yet to blossom fully - with another so called ‘I am sorry’.

Though destiny overrules most of the things, but let’s not give up. Let us both (the one who walked away and the one who stood at that juncture for long enough) wish to get back the happiness; give it another push. Let us focus one more time on how to achieve rest of the things and still continue with the relationship. Let’s try again for that wise man, who once said – where there is a will, there is a way. Congratulations to those who had made/will make it. And to those good souls who still couldn’t persuade their better halves, I would say – learn to let go.

AAJ KA LOVE

Love like life is so insecure. It comes in so passionately, but never guarantees that it will stay here forever. Probably, that’s why it is so precious.

Not every love story need a wild truck running down a road to kill it, or a lethal disease to take someone away. Sometimes the people in love walk away. It’s with this sadness that I am writing this blog.

They met, they dated, one day enjoying all those goose bumps they spoke those 3 beautiful words, and after a good amount of time one ideal Tuesday they said 3 new words ‘I am sorry’. And these 3 words ended everything between them. Most of the times it was only one between those two who wanted this break up whereas the other person so badly needed his/her love not to be ruined this way. The latter witnessed all that happening with moist eyes and the former went ahead to cherish his/her immediate dreams and later mingled with someone else. Aaj ka has become a fashion statement to fall in love with many, to date many and to do the rest of everything with many.

So, were they faking earlier when they said they love? Or, were they then not matured enough when they said they love, to later find out that this is not what they were looking for? Or maybe, they were matured enough then but later in this journey turned immature. No matter what the case was, but the common reality which I read in the final lines of these emails also convey to me that how they now cry on their foolishness, how they miss the love of their lives, how they miss to be cared by someone so special.

My only reason to write this blog is to check our actions before it’s too late. It is high time we turn mature and curb this accelerating and ugly series of ‘premarital divorce’. Let’s be cautious enough and calculate every permutation and combination of our life before we commit to someone, for you never know, it may ruin someone’s beautiful life - which is yet to blossom fully - with another so called ‘I am sorry’.

Though destiny overrules most of the things, but let’s not give up. Let us both (the one who walked away and the one who stood at that juncture for long enough) wish to get back the happiness; give it another push. Let us focus one more time on how to achieve rest of the things and still continue with the relationship. Let’s try again for that wise man, who once said – where there is a will, there is a way. The best part as I see in these sad emails is that one ray of hope which is surging again to redo things. Congratulations to those who had made/will make it. And to those good souls who still couldn’t persuade their better halves, I would say – learn to let go.

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